“另一种情形是:有的人把越来越多的时间耗在因特网上。他们也许没有网上情人要见面,可也不愿花时间去陪伴自己的爱人,夫妻关系当然会因此遭到破坏。
Such stories may appear to be almost urban legends, so ashamed are Internet addicts and their partners. After all, who wants to admit they have a 100 a day habit (e-mails, that is) or are somehow less alluring than a piece of hardware? But in America, which has long had a love affair with both therapy and the Net, these stories are common.
诸如此类的情形几乎成了一个个都市传奇故事,让那些痴迷于因特网的人以及他们的爱人感到惭愧。毕竟,谁也不愿意承认他们有每天收发100封电子邮件的习惯,或者承认自己竟然不比一部机器有吸引力。然而,对于美国这么一个与心理治疗和网络结缘已久的国家来说,此类故事不足为奇。
A recent survey of 17,251 Internet users found nearly 6 per cent had some sort of addiction to the medium. They revealed that their online habit contributed to disrupted marriages, childhood delinquency, crime and over-spending. Tap into online addiction sites and you'll find messages such as: "Hello, my name is Bob and I'm a Webaholic."
最近的一项调查显示,在1721名因特网用户中,有近6%的用户程度不同地痴迷于上网。这些网迷承认,他们上网成癖导致了婚姻破裂、使孩子误人歧途、滋生犯罪而且经济上入不敷出。敲击键盘进入网迷站点,你会发现这样一些信息:“嗨,我叫鲍勃,一个网虫。
Witness the plight of Ohio woman Kelli Michetti, who literally became a computer hacker because of her husband's constant online chatting. When she crashed a meat cleaver through her husband's computer terminal that solved the problem, although naturally it led to difficulties with the police.
俄亥俄州一名叫凯莉·米切蒂的妇女的困窘处境就是一个见证。由于她的丈夫经常上网聊天,凯莉成了地道的电脑黑客。她擅自闯入其丈夫的电脑终端解决了这个问题,但是,不用说这惹出了麻烦,惊动了警方。
Or take the classic Internet addiction story of Ingrid Parker, a woman who became such a slave to the Internet--especially chat rooms-- that it took over her life. She made do with two hours' sleep a night, had marathon weekend computer sessions of up to 17 hours and fell in love with a married man in the US state of Oregon.
英格丽德·帕克的故事也是典型事例,她成了因特网的奴隶——尤其钟情于网上聊天——网甚至成了生活中主要的内容。她曾经一晚上只睡2小时,周末连续 17个小时玩电脑,并且和美国俄勒冈州的一个已婚男子相恋。